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100	1		_aBerzon, Betty, _eauthor. _91042477
245	1	0	_aPermanent partners : _bbuilding gay & lesbian relationships that last / _cBetty Berzon.
264		1	_aNew York, N.Y. : _bPlume, _c[1988]
264		4	_c©1988
300			_axiv, 354 pages ; _c24 cm
336			_atext _btxt _2rdacontent
337			_aunmediated _bn _2rdamedia
338			_avolume _bnc _2rdacarrier
504			_aIncludes bibliographical references (pages 351-354).
505	0	0	_tAcknowledgments -- _tIntroduction: About Us -- _g1. _tIt's Time for a Change: Reinventing Gay and Lesbian Relationships -- _g2. _tBuilding Compatibility: Living With Differences and Working With the Effects of Relationship Myths and Fantasies -- _g3. _tFeeling Good About Being Gay: Understanding How Sexual Identity Conflict Can Affect Your Relationship -- _g4. _t"What's Going on Here?": Learning to Diagnose the Underlying Problems in Your Relationship -- _g5. _t"Are You Listening to Me?": Improving Communication With Your Partner -- _g6. _t"Who's in Charge, Now?": Addressing Power and Control Issues -- _g7. _tJealousy: A New View of an Old Problem: Looking at the Broader Meanings and Positive Uses of Jealous Feelings -- _g8. _tFighting the Good Fight: Learning to Deal With Conflict Constructively -- _g9. _tThe Sexual Agenda: Improving Sexual Communication, Resolving the Monogamy Issue, and Coping with Sexual Desire Differences -- _g10. _tMoney Issues: Understanding the Role of Money in the Power Equation and Setting Up the Optimal Money Management Plan for Your Relationship -- _g11. _tEmpowering Your Relationship Legally: Making Use of Contracts, Joint Tenancy Ownership, Estate Planning and Insurance Coverage to Protect Your Partnership Legally -- _g12. _tThe In-Laws, God Bless 'Em: Integrating Your Families Into Your Life as a Couple -- _g13. _tHaving Children, Taking Vows, Telling the World: Taking Advantage of Some New Options in Gay and Lesbian Relationships -- _g14. _tThe Inevitability of Change in Your Partnership: Recognizing the Effects of Unspoken Contracts and Change-Resisting Routines -- _g15. _tIn Praise of Our Partners: Giving Voice to Affection and Admiration Affirming Lover and Love Alike -- _tBibliography.
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