TY - BOOK AU - Mannix,Kathryn TI - With the end in mind: dying, death and wisdom in an age of denial SN - 9780316504485 AV - HQ1073 .M355 2018 U1 - 304.64 23 PY - 2018/// CY - New York, NY PB - Little, Brown and Company/Hachette Book Group KW - Death KW - Terminal care KW - Hospice care KW - Psychological aspects KW - Palliative treatment KW - Terminal Care KW - Attitude to Death KW - Palliative Care KW - Hospice Care KW - Popular Work KW - Self-help publications KW - lcgft N1 - "January 2018"--Title page verso; Includes bibliographical references; Introduction -- Reading the label -- Patterns. Unpromising beginnings ; French resistance ; Tiny dancer ; Wrecking ball ; Last waltz ; Pause for thought : patterns -- My way. That is the question ; Never let me go ; Hat ; Take my breath away ; Pause for thought : my way -- Naming death. Second-hand news ; Slipping through my fingers ; Talking about the unmentionable ; The sound of silence ; Every breath you take (I'll be watching you) ; Beauty and the beast ; Pause for thought : naming death -- Looking beyond the now. In the kitchen at parties ; Please release me--A side ; Please release me--B side ; Travel plans ; With love from me to you ; Pause for thought : looking beyond the now -- Legacy. Something unpredictable ; The year of the cat ; Post-mortem ; Needles and pins ; Lullaby ; Pause for thought : legacy -- Transcendence. Musical differences ; Deep dreams ; De profundis ; Perfect day ; 'Only the good die young' ; Pause for thought : transcendence -- Last words N2 - A palliative care physician draws on stories from her own practice to explain how to enable a gentle and peaceful death and how modern medicine, augmented by traditional palliative approaches, can restore dignity, humanity, and meaning to the end of life ER -