TY - BOOK AU - Ahrons,Constance R. TI - We're still family: what grown children have to say about their parents' divorce SN - 0060193050 AV - HQ834 .A675 2004 U1 - 306.89 22 PY - 2004///] CY - New York PB - HarperCollins KW - Divorce KW - United States KW - Longitudinal studies KW - Adult children of divorced parents KW - Interviews N1 - Interviews with adult children from the divorced families originally studied in the author's The good divorce, c1994; Includes bibliographical references (pages 265-267) and index; pt. 1: The truth about divorce. No easy answers : why the popular view of divorce is wrong -- The adult children speak : the real legacy of divorce -- Lingering memories about their predivorce family : adult children look back at their parents' marriages before the divorce -- pt. 2: Changes, changes : what our kids want us to know about what works and what doesn't. Living arrangements : what kids have to say about their "best interests" -- Fathers : the most vulnerable relationship and how adult children work it out -- Reinventing the Brady Bunch : how remarriage changes children's lives -- The importance of tribal elders : adult children tell us how parental cooperation matters -- pt. 3: Strengthening our binuclear families. Fostering resilience : helping children thrive in their postdivorce families -- Advice from the front lines : how to script a good divorce -- Postscript: A call for change : how society can support families after divorce -- Appendix: The research ER -