Pollack, William S.,

Real boys : rescuing our sons from the myths of boyhood / William Pollack. - First Owl Books edition. - xxvi, 447 pages ; 21 cm

"An Owl book.". Originally published: 1st ed. New York : Random House, 1998. With new pref.

Includes bibliographical references and index.

Pt. 1: Real boys. Inside the world of boys : behind the mask of masculinity ; Stories of shame and the haunting trauma of separation : how we can connect with boys and change the "Boy Code" ; Real boys : the truths behind the myths ; Action love : how boys relate -- Pt. 2: Connecting to boys. The power of mothers ; Real fathers/real men : the empathic relationships of fathers and sons ; The adolescent crucible : growth, change and sexuality ; The world of boys and their friendships ; Being "different" : being gay ; Schools : the blackboard jumble ; Sports : play and transformation -- Pt. 3: When the bough breaks. Hamlet's curse : depression and suicide in boys ; Violence : slay or be slain ; Divorce -- Pt. 4: Staying connected : real boys/real men -- Epilogue : the "real boy" code--revising the Boy Code and staying connected.

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Boys
Sons
Masculinity.
Child rearing.

HQ775. / P65 1999

305.23